I have had the misfortune to date a few gals from the US of A recently and have been severely disappointed and sometimes horrified at the lifestyle they lead.This has nothing to do with the economic capability of these women.Your hate mail section is interesting, and in publishing some of the same, you have certainly uncovered some of that disarray and anger owned by many western women.The idea that Latina women are almost always impoverished and are therefore bent toward some sort of prostitution and/or the desperate marriage only speaks to the ignorance of the accuser.They simply are unavailable to their children, their home, their man of the moment, and ultimately to themselves.They own unreasonable expectations of their men, tattoos, attire that´s old looking and too relaxed, unkempt hair, soiled laundry tossed one piece on top of another, and most of all, an anger that I do not understand.There is apparently a need, and you are apparently speaking to that need, both to the Latina and the American male, both of whom are tired of the fight.The origin of that need becomes evident quickly, and I suppose that is grounds for anger though that anger, should be turned inward, not outward.
The word "values" is very different from the word "virtues." They are two different words with two entirely different meanings. The Latina is looking for male virtues, and the North American male is looking for comfort and appreciation, that which he values.I suppose that when an entire female generation is being cast aside in lieu of something better the female will display anger and frustration.It must send a message that your service and services like yours are prolific because they fill a need.Amy calls us losers, but I would ask her this: Would a loser head up an executive position in one of the largest food companies in the world?
Would a loser pass up the chance for happiness with a Latin woman or keep looking for something that isn´t there in the US?
I have not been able to grasp the new idea that offering comfort to your husband is weak or subordinate.